Resources

A trusted guide for parents of highly sensitive children

Parenting a highly sensitive child can feel overwhelming, especially when advice is scattered or contradictory. This page brings together research-backed, practical, and compassionate resources to help you understand sensitivity, support emotional regulation, and nurture your child's strengths with confidence.

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Is your child highly sensitive?

Dr. Elaine Aron's questionnaire for parents is a quick, research-based first check. It is not a diagnosis. It is a way to name what you may already be seeing.

Recommended books

Essential books for parents of highly sensitive children

Book covers: The Highly Sensitive Child, Raising an Emotionally Intelligent Child, The Orchid and the Dandelion
  • The Highly Sensitive ChildElaine Aron
  • Raising an Emotionally Intelligent ChildJohn Gottman
  • The Orchid and the DandelionW. Thomas Boyce
  • Self-RegStuart Shanker
  • Parenting a Highly Sensitive ChildMagdalena Lindberg

Gifted, ADHD, and neurodivergent-sensitive children

When sensitivity and neurodivergence overlap

Many highly sensitive children are also gifted or neurodivergent. These resources help parents avoid pathologizing sensitivity while still supporting executive function and learning needs.

Book covers: Misdiagnosis and Dual Diagnoses of Gifted Children, Smart but Scattered, NeuroTribes
  • Misdiagnosis and Dual Diagnoses of Gifted Children and AdultsJames Webb
  • Smart but ScatteredPeg Dawson and Richard Guare
  • NeuroTribesSteve Silberman

Books for highly sensitive children

Child-friendly tools that normalize emotions

Book covers: Be Mindful of Monsters, My Body Sends a Signal, The Invisible String
  • Be Mindful of MonstersLauren Stockly
  • My Body Sends a SignalNatalia Maguire
  • The Invisible StringPatrice Karst

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Smart Parent Toolkit

Free learning tools Ming built for her own kids

Browser-based, no downloads, no logins. Calm colors and short sessions, made with sensitive children in mind.

Math and memory

Pi Galaxy

Memorizing the digits of pi, turned into a game kids want to play.

Mandarin for beginners

HàoXué Chinese

Twelve HSK Level 1 words across four game-style modes.

Spelling and vocabulary

Spelling Bee Practice Tool

Upload any word list and practice with a clear American voice.

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Beyond the books

Reading helps. A conversation about your child helps more.

Book a free 30-minute consultation and bring the questions no book quite answers.